What makes a theme feel like you
A blank canvas is a trap. Give most artists an empty page and a hundred settings and they freeze, or they lose a weekend to it and still do not like the result. My sister did this more than once. So we do not start there. We start with about ten looks that already work, each one made for a kind of artist.
Opinion, then room
Every theme makes the hard choices for you. Type that carries a headline. Spacing that breathes. Color that frames your cover art instead of fighting it. Then you make it yours by dropping in your songs, your photos, and your shows.
Change it just by asking
Want the cover bigger, or your Friday show up top? You ask in plain words and the site updates and republishes. No settings to hunt for, nothing to learn. The look stays good because the hard parts were decided before you ever arrived.